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Writer's pictureKaren Meisels

How to Thrive During Perimenopause: A Holistic Approach

Often it is true that there is an aura of fear and uncertainty around aging. But as it happens to us all, generally we realize that aging isn’t so bad; after all, our confidence increases, our relationships deepen, and our knowledge and gratitude levels expand. But then suddenly, there is a specific stage we hit that throws us off course and makes us scratch our heads and think, Hang on, what is going on with me? Why do I feel so strange all of a sudden? Am I going crazy? 


It could be... perimenopause.


As both a woman and a certified Nutritional Strategist and Vitality Coach specializing in Ayurvedic nutrition, I have a special interest in the topic of perimenopause. There are many small but intentional changes you can make in your daily life to ease through this often uncomfortable period. During this transformative stage, it's essential to build on your knowledge and support, and to put in motion proactive, holistic measures that will help to navigate these changes gracefully. 


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You don't have to face perimenopause alone.

Let’s explore the common perimenopause and its impacts on mental and physical health, and learn empowering strategies to thrive during this transition.


What is Perimenopause?

Perimenopause, often referred to as the "menopausal transition," typically begins in a woman's 40s, but can start earlier. It's marked by hormonal fluctuations as the body gradually prepares for menopause. During this phase, estrogen levels fluctuate unpredictably, leading to a variety of symptoms that can impact daily life.


Estrogen is a primary female sex hormone crucial for the sexual and reproductive development in women. It also plays significant roles in other bodily functions, including bone health, skin and hair health, cardiovascular functionality, mucous membranes, pelvic muscles, and the brain.


During perimenopause, which is the transition period before menopause, several hormones are affected. 

Estrogen: Levels fluctuate widely and eventually decline.

Progesterone: Levels decrease as ovulation becomes less frequent.

Testosterone: May also decrease slightly, affecting libido and energy levels.


What are Common Symptoms of Perimenopause?

Perimenopause manifests differently for each woman, but common symptoms include:


  • Hot flashes

  • Night sweats

  • Irregular periods

  • Mood swings

  • Fatigue

  • Sleep disturbances

  • Brain fog

  • Changes in skin elasticity and moisture

  • Decreased libido


These symptoms can vary in intensity and duration, making each woman's experience unique. The most common symptoms seems to be hot flashes, which can last from several months to several years worth of occurrences. 


What Are the Effects of Perimenopause on Mental Health?

The hormonal fluctuations of perimenopause can significantly impact mental health, leading to many emotional challenges. Common symptoms include:


  • Mood Swings: Sudden and unpredictable changes in mood can occur, often without apparent reason, leaving women feeling emotionally unstable.

  • Irritability: A decreased tolerance and increased frustration over minor inconveniences or irritations can become more pronounced during this period.

  • Anxiety: Heightened anxiety or persistent worry may develop or worsen due to hormonal imbalances, creating feelings of apprehension about everyday situations.

  • Depression: Some women may experience episodes of depression, characterized by persistent sadness, loss of interest in enjoyable activities, and a general feeling of malaise.

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Practice self-care to reduce perimenopause symptoms.

Engaging in stress-reduction practices, such as meditation, yoga, or regular physical activity, can significantly improve emotional equilibrium and enhance overall well-being.


Additionally, professional therapy or counseling can offer valuable strategies for managing mental health symptoms effectively, providing a structured approach to understanding and addressing the emotional impacts of hormonal changes.


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What Are the Effects of Perimenopause on Physical Health?

Beyond the emotional aspects, perimenopause can also affect physical health. Decreased estrogen levels may lead to bone density loss, increasing the risk of osteoporosis. Additionally, hormonal changes can impact cardiovascular health, metabolism, and weight management. 


Engaging in regular exercise, prioritizing a nutrient-rich diet, and avoiding smoking and excessive alcohol consumption can help mitigate these risks.


Energy and Brain Fog: The Importance of Quality Sleep During Perimenopause

Fatigue and cognitive fog rank among the most common complaints from women navigating perimenopause. Oscillating hormone levels can often disrupt regular sleep patterns, resulting in significant tiredness and a pervasive mental haze that can affect daily functioning. Prioritizing consistent quality sleep and enhanced cognitive clarity is the key to managing this symptom.


Establishing a consistent sleep routine is crucial. Creating a sleep-conducive environment also plays a vital role. This involves optimizing your bedroom for comfort and tranquility—think cool, quiet, and dark. Consider using blackout curtains, eye masks, and white noise machines to block out disturbances. 


8 tips for better sleep:

  • Stick to a sleep schedule.

  • Create a bedtime routine.

  • Make your bedroom comfortable and free of distractions.

  • Limit exposure to screens before bed.

  • Avoid caffeine, heavy meals and alcohol at least three hours before bed.

  • Get regular physical activity, but not before bedtime.

  • Manage stress and anxiety - incorporate mediation or a relaxing ritual before bed. 

  • Keep naps short and early in the day.


These strategies improve sleep, enhance overall energy levels, and reduce the cognitive fog associated with perimenopause, helping to maintain mental sharpness and vitality.


Changes to the Skin and Hair During Perimenopause

Changes in estrogen levels can also affect the skin, leading to dryness, thinning, and increased susceptibility to wrinkles. Combatting these effects requires a multi-faceted approach, including proper hydration, a skincare routine tailored to your skin's needs, and incorporating foods rich in antioxidants and omega-3 fatty acids. Seeking advice from a dermatologist may be helpful for any sudden or severe skin issues. 


Many women experience hair changes during perimenopause due to hormonal fluctuations. Here are some common hair changes women might notice during this transitional period.


Thinning Hair: The reduction in estrogen and progesterone, which help hair grow faster and stay on the head longer, can lead to hair growing slower and becoming thinner. This results in overall hair thinning, especially on the top of the head.

Hair Loss: Increased hair shedding or loss can occur, often noticed when washing or brushing hair, typically affecting the entire scalp rather than just specific areas.

Texture Changes: Some women may notice that their hair becomes finer, less voluminous, or changes in texture (e.g., straight hair becoming wavier or curlier, or vice versa), due to hormonal imbalances affecting the hair follicles.

Dryness and Brittleness: Decreased oil production can make hair drier and more prone to breaking, leading to a brittle texture and increased split ends.

Slower Growth: Hair growth may slow down due to a decrease in the rate of new hair growth, compounded by the shorter life span of each hair strand.


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You may notice a change in your hair during perimenopause.

It’s important for women experiencing these changes to consider gentle hair care practices, nourishing diets rich in essential vitamins and minerals, and possibly discussing with a healthcare provider about treatments that can help manage these symptoms effectively.


Diet and Supplementation During Perimenopause

Nutrition plays a crucial role in supporting hormone balance and overall well-being during perimenopause. Incorporating hormone-balancing foods like leafy greens, fatty fish, and flaxseeds can help alleviate symptoms.


Here are the top 10 foods known for their hormone-balancing properties:


  • Broccoli: Contains indole-3-carbinol, which helps metabolize estrogens and supports overall hormone balance.

  • Flaxseeds: Rich in phytoestrogens and omega-3 fatty acids, flaxseeds help in regulating hormone levels.

  • Salmon: High in omega-3 fatty acids, salmon reduces inflammation and can help balance hormone levels.

  • Avocado: Packed with beta-sitosterol, avocados can positively affect hormone balance by impacting estrogen and progesterone levels.

  • Quinoa: Contains hormone-balancing benefits due to its high protein content and variety of amino acids.

  • Spinach: Loaded with magnesium, which plays a pivotal role in hormone regulation.

  • Nuts (especially almonds and walnuts): Rich in essential fatty acids, nuts help in the production and regulation of hormone levels.

  • Seeds (pumpkin, chia, and sesame): These seeds are high in zinc and other minerals essential for hormone health.

  • Eggs: Provide a complete protein with all essential amino acids, vitamins D, B6, and E, which are crucial for hormone balance.

  • Pomegranate: This fruit has natural estrogens similar to those produced by the human body, which can help balance hormone levels.


Additionally, certain supplements, such as vitamin D, magnesium, and black cohosh may offer relief from hot flashes and other symptoms. However, it's essential to consult with a healthcare professional before starting any new supplement regimen.



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Other Lifestyle Factors

In addition to diet and supplementation, lifestyle factors like stress management, regular exercise, and adequate sleep are paramount. Finding activities that bring joy and relaxation, such as spending time in nature, practicing mindfulness, or engaging in creative pursuits, can help alleviate stress and promote overall well-being.


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Perimenopause is a Natural Stage of Life.

Perimenopause is something that most women will experience, but let's remember that we are not alone in this!


By prioritizing self-care, seeking support from healthcare professionals and loved ones, and making intentional lifestyle choices, women can navigate this transition with confidence and vitality.


Let's navigate this journey together – call or email me to learn how to turn the perimenopause stage from disruptive and unpredictable to enriched and powerful.



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